As you were on your way out to take a nice evening walk around the city center, world-traveling party hostel guy told you about the barbecue he’s planning tonight.
“You’ll be there, right?”
“Thanks, but I already have dinner plans,” is what you were saying, but party hostel guy didn’t seem to be hearing you.
“It starts at 8, there will be drinks too. See you there,” he said.
When you came back to the hostel later that night at around 11, you kept your head down and went straight to your bunk to go to sleep, successfully avoiding party hostel guy, who was drunk and loudly talking about his sick time partying in Brazil last year.